picked a handful of violets in my name

If you decide not to start the training, that's okay. You might want to make sure your support network is in place.

If you start the training and it's too hard to finish the training, that's okay. You might want to make sure your support network is in place.

If you finish the training and it's too hard to do the work, that's okay. You might want to make sure your support network is in place.

I hope it's okay with you that I presumed to speak to you about this.