Picked three months and photos at random!

( more animals in WI here, which seems weird since I'm in Minnesota )

How are you doing?
I am OK.
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I am not OK, but don't need help right now.
9 (36.0%)
I could use some help.
0 (0.0%)
How many other humans live with you?
I am living single.
9 (36.0%)
One other person.
11 (44.0%)
More than one other person.
5 (20.0%)
Want to leave a Kudos?
Now that's blind-siding if I've ever seen it…
And even though this story is set in college, it isn't some tissue-grabbing, Sandra Bullock happy-ending…In fact, this story focuses on the downside of parental gaslighting, rather than the positive cases of parenting!
Having helicopter parents who are obsessed with their kids 'future' can be tough. Despite them often wanting the best for their kids, these types of controlling tendencies can be unhealthy to any parent-child relationship, especially as they get older. It's important for young adults to be able to spread their wings, without having to constantly look back at the nest, to validate that their parents are behind them, clapping at every soar and turn they make.
Yes, you want your parents to support you…And when they are the ones who are technically supporting you financially, it can become difficult to have a say in the boundaries that come with their influence in your decision-making!
College degrees, boyfriends, jobs…it may all feel like our decision at the time, but is it ever really solely ours?
This man really looked at his video guy, someone he's known for six months, and thought the next logical business move was a roommate situation. It's the kind of boundary collapse that only happens when a person confuses creative control with personal ownership.
https://dotat.at/@/2026-01-12-hqlr.html
A while back I wrote about the linear rate limit algorithms leaky bucket and GCRA. Since then I have been vexed by how common it is to implement rate limiting using complicated and wasteful algorithms (for example).
But linear (and exponential) rate limiters have a disadvantage: they can be slow to throttle clients whose request rate is above the limit but not super fast. And I just realised that this disadvantage can be unacceptable in some situations, when it's imperative that no more than some quota of requests is accepted within a window of time.
In this article I'll explore a way to enforce rate limit quotas more precisely, without undue storage costs, and without encouraging clients to oscillate between bursts and pauses. However I'm not sure it's a good idea.
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Our solar system has eight major planets, nine if you believe that Pluto Was Wronged. It also has literally thousands of minor planets, which are also colloquially known as asteroids, many of which reside in the “asteroid belt” between Jupiter and Mars. I learned some time ago that the International Astronomical Union, through its Working Group on Small Bodies Nomenclature, will give some of these minor planets, usually designated by number, an actual name. What kinds of names? Sometimes of geographical locations, sometimes of observatories, sometimes of fictional characters like Spock or Sherlock Holmes, sometimes of scientists (or their family members), and sometimes, just sometimes, they’re named after science fiction authors.
Like minor planet 52692 (1998 FO8), henceforth to be known as “Johnscalzi”:

This little space potato is a Main Belt Asteroid whose orbit is comfortably between Jupiter and Mars, has a diameter of about 10.7 kilometers, and has a “year” of about 5 years, 8 months and 10 days. If I start the clock on a ScalziYear today, it’ll be New ScalziYear’s Day on September 22, 2031. Plan ahead! If you want to look for Johnscalzi, the link above will tell you where it is, more or less, on any given day, but at 10km across and an absolute magnitude of 12.19 (i.e., really really really dim), don’t expect to find it in your binoculars or home telescope. Just know that it there, cruising along in space, doing its little space potato-y thing.
How do I feel about this? My dudes, dudettes and dudeites, I am so unbelievably stoked about this I can’t even tell you. It’s not an exaggeration to say this was something of a life goal, but not a goal that was in my control in any significant way. I suppose it might be possible to buy one’s way into having an asteroid named for you, but I don’t know how to do that, and I wouldn’t even if I did. How much cooler to be tapped on the shoulder by the International Astronomical Union, and to be told, here is a space potato with your name. I can die happier now than I could have a day ago. To be clear, I don’t plan to die anytime soon. But when I do, if they’re shooting remains into space that point, now they will have a place to aim me at.
Also cool: The name of the asteroid that’s in the catalogue next to mine. We geeked out about it on the phone just now. We’re Space Potato Pals!
Anyway, this is how my day is going. It’s pretty great. Highlight of the year so far, for sure.
— JS
Below you'll find the calendar for the tenth (!) FTH auction. (What is FTH?)
Our list of supported organizations for 2026 is here. Over the next week, we'll be posting more in-depth profiles of each of these organizations on Tumblr to help creators and bidders can make thoughtful, informed decisions. You can also look at the Auction FAQ (which has lots of useful information for people thinking about signing up as creators, as well as dedicated sections on bidding and on nonprofit orgs.) If you’re raring to go, you can also look at our bidding policies. You'll also find the dates for our 2026 Crafts Bazaar, if you're interested in creating or receiving physical fanworks.
Monday, Jan 26th: creator signups open for both the auction and the craft bazaar
Sunday, Feb 8th: creator signups close for the main auction; craft bazaar signups remain open!
Friday, Feb 27th: browsing period begins, craft bazaar opens
Tuesday, March 3rd, 8am ET: auction bidding opens; craft bazaar signups close
Saturday, March 7th, 8pm ET: auction bidding closes
Wednesday, Mar 18th: auction donations due; craft stalls close
Thursday, Dec 31st: fanworks due
We're excited to be back for another round, and we hope you are too! After all, the world needs us more than ever: our donations, our community care, and our joyful and inspiring fanworks. We need one another right now, and FTH is a great way to make that happen.
Are you a linear writer?
yes, I start at the beginning and write until the end of the story
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yes, unless the story itself isn't linear
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no, I write bits and pieces all over the place and then stitch them together
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something else (see comments)
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tickyboxes are ...
neatly lined up one after the other
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out of order
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beyond such human concerns
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