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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 01:36:49 GMT</pubDate>
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  <description>&lt;h3&gt;21 Days of Dreamwidth&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/509802.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;day 3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___2&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/509802.html#cutid2&quot;&gt;four links: polyamory, police violence, crutches (metaphorical), web accessibility&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___2&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=509802&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Sat, 09 Apr 2011 00:53:38 GMT</pubDate>
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  <description>Oof. Spend 30-ish hours finishing a paper and being at work, and you wind up with 50 open tabs after you skip 120 entries back. (Back when I was primarily reading on LJ, I would have had to skip farther back but I wouldn&apos;t have needed to open as many tabs.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;internets&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/create?from=sofiaviolet&amp;amp;code=PKXWMZ2YXEK8MAAAM8AA&quot;&gt;Dreamwidth invite code&lt;/a&gt;, free for the taking, or check &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png&apos; alt=&apos;[site community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_codesharing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.
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Warning: the queue for the importer is really backed up right now because so many people want to import and because LJ doesn&apos;t have the resources to give the import tool what it&apos;s asking for. If you can wait to import, please do.
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://stepps.dreamwidth.org/323637.html&quot;&gt;What to do with Dreamwidth: a list of tutorials and information&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png&apos; alt=&apos;[community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;leverage_flashfic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! The Leverage panel at Muskrat Jamboree wanted a flashfic comm and I volunteered to run it. No one has posted fic yet, but I am &lt;a href=&quot;http://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/448.html&quot;&gt;soliciting prompts&lt;/a&gt;.
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&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png&apos; alt=&apos;[community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;ao3some&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, which may win for best comm name.
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&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png&apos; alt=&apos;[community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;lj_refugees&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
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&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png&apos; alt=&apos;[site community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_community_promo&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/291874.html&quot;&gt;is hosting a communities-only version of Follow Friday&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png&apos; alt=&apos;[personal profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;melannen&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://melannen.dreamwidth.org/294088.html&quot;&gt;Love &amp; Marriage&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;One thing I love in a good SF story is ways of doing love, marriage, and romance that don&apos;t buy in to our society&apos;s idea of love+romance+sex+monogamy all on one single person as the only way to do it. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png&apos; alt=&apos;[staff profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://denise.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://denise.dreamwidth.org/57915.html&quot;&gt;(no subject)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I&apos;ve seen people wondering why imports are taking so @)#$(*&amp; long. This might help shed some light:&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png&apos; alt=&apos;[personal profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;synecdochic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/459929.html&quot;&gt;LiveJournal&apos;s DDoS and Russian Politics&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;So, people who grumble about &quot;the Russians&quot; taking over LJ should remember that in Russia, LiveJournal isn&apos;t just the top blogging platform, it&apos;s the blogging platform. It is Russia&apos;s free press. It is the tool being used to fight corruption and advance the cause of democracy. And, more practically to LJ users, the Russian-speaking sector of LJ is the reason LJ is still there at all.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png&apos; alt=&apos;[personal profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;helens78&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://helens78.dreamwidth.org/1022248.html&quot;&gt;Vote Ticky!&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I am in favor of tickys because tickys are a form of communication. They can help engender community and relationships in a way that can enhance comments rather than replacing them or taking away from them. When someone isn&apos;t commenting, it&apos;s impossible to know if it&apos;s because they&apos;re lost for words, aren&apos;t on a platform suitable for lengthy comments (how many users read the site from smartphones now?), don&apos;t have a lot of spoons, have to conserve typing time... or aren&apos;t reading and don&apos;t care. Seeing people&apos;s names crop up repeatedly in tickys helps us discover who out there is giving us their time and attention, and can be a greatly-appreciated form of support, even or especially in times when hearing many individual comments -- and feeling obliged to respond to each of them -- can feel overwhelming.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;EDIT: &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png&apos; alt=&apos;[site community profile] &apos; width=&apos;16&apos; height=&apos;16&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_maintenance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/31231.html&quot;&gt;LiveJournal slowdowns/DDoS affecting importer, crossposts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504392&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 04:04:40 GMT</pubDate>
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  <description>OH GOD FINALLY I AM CAUGHT UP. I only had to go to skip=620 to do it.
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Apologies for my epic failure at updating; I don&apos;t like to post when I&apos;m behind on my reading. And speaking of my dreamroll... I am having to cut down on my subscriptions because I am overwhelmed. Bleh full-time job. I love my work, but I also love my internets. It is a sad time for me.

&lt;h3&gt;Important things:&lt;/h3&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Every year, &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;http://shadesong.livejournal.com/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif&apos; alt=&apos;[livejournal.com profile] &apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;http://shadesong.livejournal.com/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;shadesong&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; does Blogathon for the &lt;a href=&quot;http://barcc.org/&quot;&gt;Boston Area Rape Crisis Center&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dataastris.com/auction/auctionlist.asp&quot;&gt;Her fundraising includes a charity auction&lt;/a&gt;; I have three pieces in the mix this year: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=60&quot;&gt;Chains and Crippling Shoes&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=68&quot;&gt;We Met in February&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=69&quot;&gt;The Awful Feeling of Knowing You Don&apos;t Remember No&lt;/a&gt;. Plus lots of other really lovely things that you should go and bid on!&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;I am going to Grand Forks! I&apos;ll be staying with C. and will also take the opportunity to hang out with Ellen and Greg, since I missed them in New Orleans this year. I am not sure what that will do to my internet time: on the one hand, C. and I will probably be very occupied with each other, but on the other hand, I can easily see us just chilling together with our laptops for a little while every day. At any rate, I will be out of Boston from August 14th to August 21st.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Speaking of C., we are now officially in a relationship! We put it on Facebook and everything. Current relationship status is &quot;open&quot; although there&apos;s an unspoken expectation that we&apos;ll be functionally monogamous &lt;em&gt;at least&lt;/em&gt; until we can talk about it in person. There will be a more *ahem* detailed update later - hooray for filters.&lt;/li&gt;
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