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  <pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 00:30:16 GMT</pubDate>
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  <description>&lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png&apos; alt=&apos;[personal profile] &apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;https://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;pinesandmaples&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/857601.html&quot;&gt;Resist temptation&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Hurricane Katrina is not an opening line. It is never an appropriate way to start a conversation with a New Orleanean.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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To update, belatedly, about Irene: I am really kind of shocked we didn&apos;t lose power. Very uneventful hurricane here in JP.
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Conclusion: Doctor Who is not my new fandom. It is my new entertainment candy. (Conclusion drawn after noticing my total lack of interest in reading other people&apos;s reaction posts.)
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That said, I think this leaves me adrift, fannishly. Actually I think at this point &lt;em&gt;fandom&lt;/em&gt; is my fandom.
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I&apos;ve been kind of hiding out for a few weeks. Minor depressive downswing, I guess - I&apos;m not sure I would even have noticed it (or, you know, experienced it) except that I&apos;ve been so bad about taking my meds lately. Only really seems to have affected my social - I haven&apos;t been updating as much, have skipped loads of munches, etc. And it doesn&apos;t help that my semi-guaranteed social time (Battletech) hasn&apos;t happened for a few weeks because our GM burnt out.
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Pleased to report that the Mirena seems to have finally stopped the bleeding portion of my period. I am still experiencing the early-warning cramps (which I only developed this past year-ish) but as those seem to be decreasing in severity I can hope they&apos;ll cease, too.
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This leaves me with an unopened DivaCup, size 1 (won in the Muskrat Jamboree raffle back in April). Anybody want it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=518739&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:29:13 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>links</title>
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  <pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 21:17:33 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>just links today</title>
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  <description>&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

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&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Scissor Sisters concert with Ellie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481604&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 02:52:25 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Long post is really fucking long.</title>
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  <description>&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not dead! Back in Boston since Saturday, and already caught up on things!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Just finished eating half the curry I made tonight; the other half is in the fridge. I am going to bring it to work tomorrow. Leftovers for lunch - it&apos;s almost like I&apos;m a real grown-up!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ellie and I went to the mall yesterday. We were supposed to get clothes for her. Instead, we got clothes for me. /o\ On the other hand, Hello Kitty rain boots in grown-up sizes, fuck yes.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I continue to experiment with purple hair. Attempt 3 (dark purple over failed single-process bleach-and-purple) is the best yet but still not quite right.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Grand Forks&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Spent nearly every waking moment with C., got to see my family, consumed much media. Was not really online.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Relationship Stuff&lt;/h2&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;We&apos;re planning more visits, and I convinced C. to install Skype. But I think my journal will stop being All About My Boyfriend now; he&apos;ll show up from time to time along with other important people in my life.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Memery&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;From &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000&quot;&gt;Ask Me Anything&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;Looking back, are you comfortable with the way you reacted when your sister came out to you?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not really. :( I could have done more. I am especially disappointed with how little help I was to her in 2006/2007, her last year of high school, while she was trying to figure things out. True, I didn&apos;t have nearly as much knowledge of gender and trans* issues then, but I probably &lt;em&gt;still&lt;/em&gt; could have been more supportive than I actually was.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But as far as her actual coming-out? I think I did okay then, although I didn&apos;t adjust to name-and-pronouns as fast as I would have liked, even if there is a specific reason for it (trying not to out her to Mom and Dad before she had the chance to tell them herself).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

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&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Figure out Netflix. Buy more $5 vermouth for cooking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481120&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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