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  <pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 00:53:29 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>ramble</title>
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  <description>I came down with a cold on Thursday, and the worst of it has cleared out - just in time for the uterine gremlins to awaken. On the bright side, my period should be over before my sex life picks up again. (The cramps seem to be less severe in terms of actual muscle pain, but they&apos;re sharper and more symmetrical and more clearly focused on my uterus.)
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A few weeks ago, we installed some new shelves in my room (there will be so. many. holes to patch when we move out, but it is worth it in the meantime), and as a result, I rearranged all the books - well, all my books and the shared-custody books; I do not mess with the order of the engineering/woodworking/etc things because they are definitely Not Mine. And I discovered that I had space for MOAR BOOKS!!!!11!1! even with some of the shelf space being reserved for display of tchotchkes. This is very exciting and I am using it as an excuse to buy things off my wishlist. (But I have to save space for books that are still in New Orleans. I only plan to retrieve a fraction of them, the rest being novels I don&apos;t want to read again and things left over from my Stereotypical Teenage Wiccan Phase, but a fraction of 400 is still a significant number.)
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Two links that both come with trigger warnings (and lengthy blockquotes):
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  <pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 00:46:56 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>link backlog</title>
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  <description>Actual update soon, I hope.
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  <pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 04:25:47 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>long post is long</title>
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  <description>&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I&apos;ll be out of town August 14-21. While I&apos;ll have internet access, I have no idea how much I&apos;ll be online. But rest assured I&apos;ll catch up even if I can&apos;t &lt;em&gt;keep&lt;/em&gt; up.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Bosses and one reference desk person are away for the Society of American Archivists conference. Work is freakishly quiet.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Busy couple of days. Tuesday morning, I hauled a box of fun surprises to the post office (since the TSA probably frowns on taking rope in your carry-on), went to work, and then went to Diesel to meet up with &lt;span style=&apos;white-space: nowrap;&apos;&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;http://shadesong.livejournal.com/profile&apos;&gt;&lt;img src=&apos;https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif&apos; alt=&apos;[livejournal.com profile] &apos; style=&apos;vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;&apos; width=&apos;17&apos; height=&apos;17&apos;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&apos;http://shadesong.livejournal.com/&apos;&gt;&lt;b&gt;shadesong&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and receive my BARCC auction winnings: a lovely flogger. After that, I ran into Andra and spent forever telling her about C. (she kept asking questions, and I am still flush with omgyay).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Yesterday I got some purple dye, and this morning before work, I put it in my hair to see what it would do. Not a lot, as it turns out: my hair is too dark. Now it&apos;s even darker, with something of a blue cast to it. While kinda disappointing, it&apos;s not actually surprising, and it&apos;s definitely not a &lt;em&gt;bad&lt;/em&gt; result.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Leaving for Grand Forks at stupid o&apos;clock Saturday morning. Clothes are basically picked out, and toiletries are selected and quart-size bagged.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Memes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000&quot;&gt;Still open for questions.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;I know so little about you, I&apos;m afraid my question is quite pedestrian! What would your dream job be?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Pretty close to what I&apos;m doing right now. I want to be an archivist full-time, as my real grownup job. But I&apos;m not thrilled with the idea of meetings and managing other people, which my bosses at work have to do. I just want to work with the collections.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Placeholder&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I want to write about &quot;lazy femme,&quot; which is what I call my gender presentation. In short: I like things like skirts and makeup, but I don&apos;t generally bother with these more effortful bits of gendered plumage.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;More packing, go to bed, sleep, get up, go to work, come home, eat dinner, finish packing, go to bed, get up, get on airplane, arrive in Grand Forks, get laid.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=479920&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:41:47 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>linkity</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 01:15:06 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>Today I cleaned all the things.</title>
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  <description>&lt;p&gt;And by that, I mean I Organized All The Books. Next step is to get them into LibraryThing.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ellie suggests that the best place to hole up during the zombie apocalypse is a strip mall with a home improvement store and a Super WalMart that share an interior wall. Then you have materials for fortifications from the home improvement store, plus food and guns from WalMart. Just knock a hole through the interior wall and you&apos;re golden.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But if you have to choose, pick the WalMart and use random merchandise to block the doors. Ellie suggests filling shopping carts with slashed-open diapers and watering them to create a kind of sandbag thing.&lt;/p&gt;

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  <pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 05:40:53 GMT</pubDate>
  <title>wheeeeee</title>
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  <description>Northampton was a nifty place, even if it did rain on us twice. We will have to go back. Pictures tomorrow, since some of the ones I want to post are on Ellie&apos;s camera (mine being a rapid consumer of batteries that died very early on), but the summary:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/464239.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Northampton&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Upcoming: long-ass link roundup, as soon as I actually backread all of my dreamroll! Skip=300 and I am on yesterday!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=464239&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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  <pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 05:07:13 GMT</pubDate>
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  <description>Today&apos;s post is slightly late. I went to work and was super-productive! And then I did stuff other than read my dreamroll when I got home, and then Ellie and I went to get groceries. And then we didn&apos;t finish dinner until half past ten. /o\&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Song (right-click): &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sofiaviolet.com/dreamwidth/threeweeks/02SinkIntoMe.mp3&quot;&gt;Taking Back Sunday - Sink Into Me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wore a skirt today!* I also made a very poor decision with regards to shoes. I&apos;ve worn this pair before, but I guess never without socks or tights or something. I could feel that they were rubbing on my heels, but I didn&apos;t pay much attention until I was already at work and had a bunch of boxes out, since it didn&apos;t hurt &lt;em&gt;that&lt;/em&gt; much. And then I happened to actually look at my feet, and there was kind of a lot of blood going on. I had to use four bandaids from the archives supply (normally reserved for treating paper cuts, methinks), and shall be wearing sandals for several days, until the wounds heal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Skirts are a big deal for me, since they take more effort than pants. I find them harder to coordinate with tops, and I tend to get nasty razor burn when I shave my legs, and I have to figure out shoes (since socks look dumb, and I don&apos;t own many pairs of stockings/pantyhose, and *points up* going without is not always feasible), and they&apos;re harder to wear in cold weather. So my skirt collection is sadly underutilized.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/462966.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;three weeks for dreamwidth links, part whatever&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=462966&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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