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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
  <subtitle>right between the scapulae, back of the heart</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Sofia Violet Emilie Blackthorne</name>
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  <updated>2011-04-28T01:36:49Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:509802</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-27T21:17:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-28T01:36:49Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-28T01:36:49Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="oppression"/>
    <category term="accessibility"/>
    <category term="poly"/>
    <category term="three weeks for dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="depression"/>
    <category term="violence"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;21 Days of Dreamwidth&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/509802.html#cutid1"&gt;day 3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/509802.html#cutid2"&gt;four links: polyamory, police violence, crutches (metaphorical), web accessibility&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=509802" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:504392</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-08T20:50:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-09T00:53:38Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-09T00:56:02Z</updated>
    <category term="poly"/>
    <category term="politics"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
    <category term="followfriday"/>
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    <content type="html">Oof. Spend 30-ish hours finishing a paper and being at work, and you wind up with 50 open tabs after you skip 120 entries back. (Back when I was primarily reading on LJ, I would have had to skip farther back but I wouldn't have needed to open as many tabs.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;internets&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/create?from=sofiaviolet&amp;amp;code=PKXWMZ2YXEK8MAAAM8AA"&gt;Dreamwidth invite code&lt;/a&gt;, free for the taking, or check &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_codesharing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Warning: the queue for the importer is really backed up right now because so many people want to import and because LJ doesn't have the resources to give the import tool what it's asking for. If you can wait to import, please do.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://stepps.dreamwidth.org/323637.html"&gt;What to do with Dreamwidth: a list of tutorials and information&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;leverage_flashfic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! The Leverage panel at Muskrat Jamboree wanted a flashfic comm and I volunteered to run it. No one has posted fic yet, but I am &lt;a href="http://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/448.html"&gt;soliciting prompts&lt;/a&gt;.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;ao3some&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, which may win for best comm name.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;lj_refugees&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_community_promo&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/291874.html"&gt;is hosting a communities-only version of Follow Friday&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;melannen&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://melannen.dreamwidth.org/294088.html"&gt;Love &amp; Marriage&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;One thing I love in a good SF story is ways of doing love, marriage, and romance that don't buy in to our society's idea of love+romance+sex+monogamy all on one single person as the only way to do it. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/57915.html"&gt;(no subject)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I've seen people wondering why imports are taking so @)#$(*&amp; long. This might help shed some light:&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;synecdochic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/459929.html"&gt;LiveJournal's DDoS and Russian Politics&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;So, people who grumble about "the Russians" taking over LJ should remember that in Russia, LiveJournal isn't just the top blogging platform, it's the blogging platform. It is Russia's free press. It is the tool being used to fight corruption and advance the cause of democracy. And, more practically to LJ users, the Russian-speaking sector of LJ is the reason LJ is still there at all.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;helens78&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://helens78.dreamwidth.org/1022248.html"&gt;Vote Ticky!&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I am in favor of tickys because tickys are a form of communication. They can help engender community and relationships in a way that can enhance comments rather than replacing them or taking away from them. When someone isn't commenting, it's impossible to know if it's because they're lost for words, aren't on a platform suitable for lengthy comments (how many users read the site from smartphones now?), don't have a lot of spoons, have to conserve typing time... or aren't reading and don't care. Seeing people's names crop up repeatedly in tickys helps us discover who out there is giving us their time and attention, and can be a greatly-appreciated form of support, even or especially in times when hearing many individual comments -- and feeling obliged to respond to each of them -- can feel overwhelming.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;EDIT: &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_maintenance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/31231.html"&gt;LiveJournal slowdowns/DDoS affecting importer, crossposts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504392" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:477746</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2010-07-28T23:57:00</title>
    <published>2010-07-29T04:04:40Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-24T15:59:11Z</updated>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="trans"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="feminism"/>
    <category term="fandom:vids"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
    <category term="poly"/>
    <category term="creative:jewelry"/>
    <category term="cory"/>
    <category term="childfree"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <category term="music"/>
    <category term="fandom:scott pilgrim"/>
    <category term="recs"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="my family is fucking nuts"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="activism"/>
    <category term="travel:grand forks"/>
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    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">OH GOD FINALLY I AM CAUGHT UP. I only had to go to skip=620 to do it.
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Apologies for my epic failure at updating; I don't like to post when I'm behind on my reading. And speaking of my dreamroll... I am having to cut down on my subscriptions because I am overwhelmed. Bleh full-time job. I love my work, but I also love my internets. It is a sad time for me.

&lt;h3&gt;Important things:&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Every year, &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://shadesong.livejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif' alt='[livejournal.com profile] ' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' width='17' height='17'/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://shadesong.livejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;shadesong&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; does Blogathon for the &lt;a href="http://barcc.org/"&gt;Boston Area Rape Crisis Center&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;a href="http://www.dataastris.com/auction/auctionlist.asp"&gt;Her fundraising includes a charity auction&lt;/a&gt;; I have three pieces in the mix this year: &lt;a href="http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=60"&gt;Chains and Crippling Shoes&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=68"&gt;We Met in February&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionItem.asp?Item=69"&gt;The Awful Feeling of Knowing You Don't Remember No&lt;/a&gt;. Plus lots of other really lovely things that you should go and bid on!&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;I am going to Grand Forks! I'll be staying with C. and will also take the opportunity to hang out with Ellen and Greg, since I missed them in New Orleans this year. I am not sure what that will do to my internet time: on the one hand, C. and I will probably be very occupied with each other, but on the other hand, I can easily see us just chilling together with our laptops for a little while every day. At any rate, I will be out of Boston from August 14th to August 21st.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Speaking of C., we are now officially in a relationship! We put it on Facebook and everything. Current relationship status is "open" although there's an unspoken expectation that we'll be functionally monogamous &lt;em&gt;at least&lt;/em&gt; until we can talk about it in person. There will be a more *ahem* detailed update later - hooray for filters.&lt;/li&gt;
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