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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
  <subtitle>right between the scapulae, back of the heart</subtitle>
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    <name>Sofia Violet Emilie Blackthorne</name>
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  <updated>2011-07-20T03:14:22Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:515599</id>
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    <title>Humor me.</title>
    <published>2011-07-20T03:14:22Z</published>
    <updated>2011-07-20T03:14:22Z</updated>
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    <category term="travel:grand forks"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=7550"&gt;View Poll: little pink suitcase&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=515599" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:505165</id>
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    <title>Poll: phobias and triggers</title>
    <published>2011-04-11T19:20:51Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-11T19:21:45Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">Concept borrowed from &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dingsi.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dingsi.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dingsi&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. Data collected from this poll is available only to me, and will be used only to inform my posting and interactions to avoid harming people who read my journal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=6589"&gt;View Poll: #6589&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Comments are screened to make them a safe place to leave additional info (for example, if you need more space than is available in the textbox). If you would like your comment(s) to be unscreened, please let me know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=505165" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:500035</id>
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    <title>multi-part post</title>
    <published>2011-03-11T14:31:26Z</published>
    <updated>2011-03-11T14:31:26Z</updated>
    <category term="social life"/>
    <category term="adventures in city living"/>
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    <category term="livejournal"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://charmian.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://charmian.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;charmian&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://charmian.dreamwidth.org/89250.html"&gt;more notifications problems at LJ?&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Currently there's a notifications problem at LJ, which apparently has something to do with a third party [EDIT: possibly Spamhaus]. People are getting fairly upset about it in the comments of the news post (well, also because of the banner color scheme). 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Also, LJ is currently blacklisted with Spamhaus. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;azurelunatic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/6503853.html"&gt;Spamhaus and LJ&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;LJ has been listed by Spamhaus, which has likely got a decent amount to do with the notifications some people aren't getting. &lt;a href="http://azurelunatic.livejournal.com/6663221.html"&gt;I propose a plan of action for users to help the Abuse Prevention Team squish as many spammerbots as humanly possible.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://lireavue.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://lireavue.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;lireavue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; has been posting good links and personal accounts of the Wisconsin protests.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://laughingrat.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://laughingrat.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;laughingrat&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posts about library and social justice issues.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://helpfordelight.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://helpfordelight.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;helpfordelight&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is an auction comm to assist &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://delight.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://delight.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;delight&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with moving out of an unsafe housing situation and paying for her mother's cancer treatment.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;three_weeks_for_dw&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is ramping up for another round, beginning on April 25th. &lt;a href="http://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/77464.html"&gt;Planning of activities is currently in progress.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://unclutter.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://unclutter.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;unclutter&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is devoted to getting rid of one thing per day and one thing per new thing. (Kind of high traffic, but a really great way to clean sustainably.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_meetups&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is usually pretty quiet, but if you are interested in hanging out with other Dreamwidth users, you should subscribe in case someone plans a meetup in your area (and/or plan a meetup yourself!).&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Boston meetup&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;a href="http://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/5157.html"&gt;Boston Meetup: tentatively scheduled for 3/17&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Meme&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=6257"&gt;View Poll: Ask me a question!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=500035" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:479391</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2010-08-05T21:48:00</title>
    <published>2010-08-06T02:11:49Z</published>
    <updated>2010-08-06T02:11:49Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000"&gt;Ask Me Anything&lt;/a&gt; is still open for questions.

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

Tuesday, I came home early because my uterus attacked. After some tylenol, I was fine for a night out with friends: TOMB! Me, Ellie, Mark, Spider, Jordan, James, Gillis, Liam, and Tommy Toxic, with Cid as our guide. Lots of fun. :)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We tried to get dinner afterwards, but apparently everything near Fenway Park that serves booze becomes 21+ during Red Sox games or something? IDEK. We went to Vic's instead, which I personally consider a much better choice.

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.feministe.us"&gt;Feministe&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.feministe.us/blog/?p=18240"&gt;Where There's Smoke&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Privilege is like smoke. When we’re living with it, you don’t notice it. It’s in the air. It’s all around us, invisible, ubiquitous. We don’t notice the privilege we share with others; we only notice what surprises our senses and our brains – the way I could smell pot smoke on someone, even when I was living with my cigarette-smoking parents.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://geekfeminism.org"&gt;Geek Feminism&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;a href="http://geekfeminism.org/2010/08/05/nominate-guest-posts-for-geek-feminism/"&gt;Nominate guests posts for Geek Feminism&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;We’re primarily interested in cross-posts from smaller blogs, in order to introduce our readers to sites they don’t know of yet, and to introduce writers to a larger readership. But if the author of a piece on a widely read website wants it to appear here, we’ll certainly consider it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=479391" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:479180</id>
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    <title>This whole "more regular posting" thing is going so well, don't you think?</title>
    <published>2010-08-03T05:42:11Z</published>
    <updated>2010-08-03T05:48:15Z</updated>
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    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Yeah, I know. But getting used to the full-time job has been really rough this time around. IDK.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dataastris.com/auction/AuctionList.asp"&gt;The BARCC Blogathon auctions are running through 2010-08-03, 17:00 Eastern.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Work was fun today. In that special way where my eyes aren't used to contacts yet and I spent the whole day using a computer, and also in the way where one of the door alarms was going off pretty much all day because it was broken.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I was supposed to go to a concert tonight, but I just could not manage it. :( I napped instead. After I write this post, I'm going to go back to bed.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Signs I am tired: I am trying to read my dreamroll using ?s&lt;b&gt;h&lt;/b&gt;ip=300. /o\&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Retail Therapy&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I ordered some stuff from Fire Mountain Gems over the weekend, and it shipped today. \o/ So that'll be here next Monday, approximately. Unfortunately, I can't bring my travel jewelry kit to Grand Forks. I don't think the TSA would approve of my pliers. :( :( :( Plus I am only bringing a carry-on. DNW to pay stupid fee for checked bag.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Interactive!&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ask Me Anything: You get to ask me any one question. Any question, which I will answer to the best of my ability without violating anyone else's privacy. I am the only person who can see the poll responses.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000"&gt;View Poll: #4000&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:459803</id>
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    <title>oh make me over</title>
    <published>2010-04-27T03:21:57Z</published>
    <updated>2010-07-21T18:14:19Z</updated>
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    <dw:reply-count>8</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">In my enthusiasm for this whole enterprise, I'll be continuing the daily link roundups. I never thought I'd be that kind of blogger, but I seem to have developed the habit, even before I was doing a specific kind of link-gathering. But while link-collecting is a useful service, I also want to be making other posts, especially in the context of &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;three_weeks_for_dw&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One thing I'd like to do is provide a new song every day!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Song (right-click): &lt;a href="http://www.sofiaviolet.com/dreamwidth/threeweeks/CelebritySkin.mp3"&gt;Hole - Celebrity Skin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within the first week this song was on my ipod, it went straight to the top of the most-played list. It remains in the number one spot, with almost three times as many plays as the next song down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://blnchflr.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://blnchflr.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;blnchflr&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; has asked me to write about unreliable narrators, although this will take a few days. (I shake my fist at the end of the semester.) I am still accepting prompts, questions, et cetera, via comment/pm/email/carrier pigeon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=2898"&gt;View Poll: Some ideas I already have...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=459803" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:412805</id>
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    <title>needs even moar overshare</title>
    <published>2009-09-18T14:50:37Z</published>
    <updated>2010-07-22T17:02:30Z</updated>
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    <category term="tweet tweet"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="my family is fucking nuts"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">So my parents read my DW and I just friended my dad on facebook. But if I want them to see my tweets, how would you recommend I do that? (Keeping in mind that they do not want twitter accounts and my mom doesn't understand RSS at &lt;em&gt;all&lt;/em&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=1293"&gt;View Poll: #1293&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=412805" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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