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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
  <subtitle>right between the scapulae, back of the heart</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Sofia Violet Emilie Blackthorne</name>
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  <updated>2011-08-31T00:30:16Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:518739</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-08-30T19:56:00</title>
    <published>2011-08-31T00:30:16Z</published>
    <updated>2011-08-31T00:30:16Z</updated>
    <category term="fandom:doctor who"/>
    <category term="depression"/>
    <category term="natural disasters"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="health"/>
    <category term="katrina"/>
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    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;pinesandmaples&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://pinesandmaples.dreamwidth.org/857601.html"&gt;Resist temptation&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Hurricane Katrina is not an opening line. It is never an appropriate way to start a conversation with a New Orleanean.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;

To update, belatedly, about Irene: I am really kind of shocked we didn't lose power. Very uneventful hurricane here in JP.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

Conclusion: Doctor Who is not my new fandom. It is my new entertainment candy. (Conclusion drawn after noticing my total lack of interest in reading other people's reaction posts.)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

That said, I think this leaves me adrift, fannishly. Actually I think at this point &lt;em&gt;fandom&lt;/em&gt; is my fandom.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I've been kind of hiding out for a few weeks. Minor depressive downswing, I guess - I'm not sure I would even have noticed it (or, you know, experienced it) except that I've been so bad about taking my meds lately. Only really seems to have affected my social - I haven't been updating as much, have skipped loads of munches, etc. And it doesn't help that my semi-guaranteed social time (Battletech) hasn't happened for a few weeks because our GM burnt out.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

Pleased to report that the Mirena seems to have finally stopped the bleeding portion of my period. I am still experiencing the early-warning cramps (which I only developed this past year-ish) but as those seem to be decreasing in severity I can hope they'll cease, too.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

This leaves me with an unopened DivaCup, size 1 (won in the Muskrat Jamboree raffle back in April). Anybody want it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=518739" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:481863</id>
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    <title>links</title>
    <published>2010-08-30T03:29:13Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-24T16:02:05Z</updated>
    <category term="katrina"/>
    <category term="bodies"/>
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    <category term="new orleans"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481863.html#cutid1"&gt;linkspam, special Katrina anniversary edition&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481863.html#cutid2"&gt;everything else&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481863" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:481604</id>
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    <title>just links today</title>
    <published>2010-08-28T21:17:33Z</published>
    <updated>2010-08-28T21:18:56Z</updated>
    <category term="fandom:recs"/>
    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
    <category term="gender"/>
    <category term="fashion"/>
    <category term="race"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="katrina"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="work"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="feminism"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481604.html#cutid1"&gt;10 links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Scissor Sisters concert with Ellie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481604" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:481120</id>
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    <title>Long post is really fucking long.</title>
    <published>2010-08-24T02:52:25Z</published>
    <updated>2010-09-03T16:51:32Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="responsible grown-up person"/>
    <category term="gender"/>
    <category term="my family is fucking nuts"/>
    <category term="travel:grand forks"/>
    <category term="fandom:scott pilgrim"/>
    <category term="meatspace"/>
    <category term="shopping"/>
    <category term="hello kitty"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="katrina"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <category term="social life"/>
    <category term="feminism"/>
    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
    <category term="cory"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
    <category term="video"/>
    <category term="fandom:vids"/>
    <category term="vanity"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not dead! Back in Boston since Saturday, and already caught up on things!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Just finished eating half the curry I made tonight; the other half is in the fridge. I am going to bring it to work tomorrow. Leftovers for lunch - it's almost like I'm a real grown-up!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ellie and I went to the mall yesterday. We were supposed to get clothes for her. Instead, we got clothes for me. /o\ On the other hand, Hello Kitty rain boots in grown-up sizes, fuck yes.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I continue to experiment with purple hair. Attempt 3 (dark purple over failed single-process bleach-and-purple) is the best yet but still not quite right.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Grand Forks&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid1"&gt;Spent nearly every waking moment with C., got to see my family, consumed much media. Was not really online.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Relationship Stuff&lt;/h2&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;We're planning more visits, and I convinced C. to install Skype. But I think my journal will stop being All About My Boyfriend now; he'll show up from time to time along with other important people in my life.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Memery&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000"&gt;Ask Me Anything&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;Looking back, are you comfortable with the way you reacted when your sister came out to you?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not really. :( I could have done more. I am especially disappointed with how little help I was to her in 2006/2007, her last year of high school, while she was trying to figure things out. True, I didn't have nearly as much knowledge of gender and trans* issues then, but I probably &lt;em&gt;still&lt;/em&gt; could have been more supportive than I actually was.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But as far as her actual coming-out? I think I did okay then, although I didn't adjust to name-and-pronouns as fast as I would have liked, even if there is a specific reason for it (trying not to out her to Mom and Dad before she had the chance to tell them herself).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___3" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid3"&gt;10 links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___3" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Figure out Netflix. Buy more $5 vermouth for cooking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481120" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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