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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
  <subtitle>right between the scapulae, back of the heart</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Sofia Violet Emilie Blackthorne</name>
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  <updated>2010-11-24T00:48:49Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:491481</id>
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    <title>I kind of doubt Hello Kitty stationery is acid-free.</title>
    <published>2010-11-24T00:48:49Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-24T00:48:49Z</updated>
    <category term="hello kitty"/>
    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
    <category term="$winterholiday"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <category term="fandom:bandom:mcr saves lives!"/>
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    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">So there was that thing where the Danger Days special editions were flawed and therefore delayed, so MCR gave people who'd ordered them coupon codes for $15? I used mine to buy two sets of &lt;a href="http://www.mychemicalromance.com/shop/product/zone-badges-8-buttons"&gt;Zone Badges&lt;/a&gt;. One of those sets is mine, all mine! But as for the others... uh, who wants one? :D
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Since I am talking about sending people things, I should probably mention &lt;a href="http://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/489168.html"&gt;$winterholiday cards&lt;/a&gt; again. Locked post with screened comments.
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This made my day: &lt;a href="http://derangementanddescription.wordpress.com/2010/11/22/hello-archives/&amp;quot;"&gt;Derangement and Description: Hello Archives&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Over the next few months, he just would not stop talking about more Hello Kitty crap we could get for my office. Archivists, I know projection when I see it. And so some of us came in over the weekend to give Rob the workspace of his dreams.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=491481" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:481120</id>
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    <title>Long post is really fucking long.</title>
    <published>2010-08-24T02:52:25Z</published>
    <updated>2010-09-03T16:51:32Z</updated>
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    <category term="gender"/>
    <category term="fandom:scott pilgrim"/>
    <category term="hello kitty"/>
    <category term="my family is fucking nuts"/>
    <category term="video"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="katrina"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="meatspace"/>
    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
    <category term="vanity"/>
    <category term="cory"/>
    <category term="fandom:vids"/>
    <category term="responsible grown-up person"/>
    <category term="feminism"/>
    <category term="travel:grand forks"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="shopping"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Notes&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not dead! Back in Boston since Saturday, and already caught up on things!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Just finished eating half the curry I made tonight; the other half is in the fridge. I am going to bring it to work tomorrow. Leftovers for lunch - it's almost like I'm a real grown-up!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ellie and I went to the mall yesterday. We were supposed to get clothes for her. Instead, we got clothes for me. /o\ On the other hand, Hello Kitty rain boots in grown-up sizes, fuck yes.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I continue to experiment with purple hair. Attempt 3 (dark purple over failed single-process bleach-and-purple) is the best yet but still not quite right.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Grand Forks&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid1"&gt;Spent nearly every waking moment with C., got to see my family, consumed much media. Was not really online.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Relationship Stuff&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid2"&gt;:D!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;p&gt;We're planning more visits, and I convinced C. to install Skype. But I think my journal will stop being All About My Boyfriend now; he'll show up from time to time along with other important people in my life.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Memery&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=4000"&gt;Ask Me Anything&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;Looking back, are you comfortable with the way you reacted when your sister came out to you?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Not really. :( I could have done more. I am especially disappointed with how little help I was to her in 2006/2007, her last year of high school, while she was trying to figure things out. True, I didn't have nearly as much knowledge of gender and trans* issues then, but I probably &lt;em&gt;still&lt;/em&gt; could have been more supportive than I actually was.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But as far as her actual coming-out? I think I did okay then, although I didn't adjust to name-and-pronouns as fast as I would have liked, even if there is a specific reason for it (trying not to out her to Mom and Dad before she had the chance to tell them herself).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___3" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/481120.html#cutid3"&gt;10 links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___3" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Figure out Netflix. Buy more $5 vermouth for cooking.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=481120" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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