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  <title>picked a handful of violets in my name</title>
  <subtitle>right between the scapulae, back of the heart</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Sofia Violet Emilie Blackthorne</name>
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  <updated>2012-11-07T01:08:55Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:532099</id>
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    <title>okay, seriously</title>
    <published>2012-11-07T01:08:55Z</published>
    <updated>2012-11-07T01:08:55Z</updated>
    <category term="work"/>
    <category term="shadowrun"/>
    <category term="meatspace:gaming"/>
    <category term="fandom:avengers"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="cory"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="d&amp;d"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">I am granting myself dreamroll amnesty. I will never catch up and I'm just going to have to be okay with that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because, I shit y'all not, I have not been around since shortly after Con.txt. I was eaten by an unfortunate combination of Analog Life (mostly work, now work + class), tumblr (so low-effort!), fic on AO3, and a grue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/532099.html#cutid1"&gt;Major things happening for me right now: work, school, nerdy games, relationship, fandom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Clearly nerdy games are the bright spot in my life. Pretty sure that group are my BFFs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also revived my abandoned twitter account tonight. Whee, back on the social media wagon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, two things to conclude:&lt;br /&gt;1. If there's anything you need me to know that has happened since, like, mid-June, comment or email me or something? :)&lt;br /&gt;2. If you are in or near Boston, come to the &lt;a href="http://bostonanarchistbookfair.org/"&gt;Anarchist Bookfair&lt;/a&gt;. Especially come on Sunday, November 11, at 11:00! Most of my Community Archives class (including me) will be on a panel about community archives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=532099" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:527268</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-12-21T12:38:00</title>
    <published>2011-12-21T17:38:43Z</published>
    <updated>2011-12-21T17:38:43Z</updated>
    <category term="travel:new orleans"/>
    <category term="new orleans"/>
    <category term="shopping"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>7</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;rydra_wong&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/335663.html"&gt;is hosting another Giant Community Rec-O-Matic!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/create"&gt;Dreamwidth account creation&lt;/a&gt; is open through the end of 2011 - no code or payment required.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been in New Orleans since Sunday. We arrived an hour late because our plane took its sweet time showing up at Logan. Not sure why. But we had a reasonably nice flight and arrived in time for dinner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apparently when I'm in New Orleans I wake up by 8:00. IDEK. Probably has to do with going to bed fairly early, since my parents (especially Mom) tend to go to bed (or doze off on the couch) by 22:00.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On Monday, Mom took Ellie and I to Magazine Street and bought me some new clothes, including a nice cardigan and some black jeans. Yesterday, we got groceries. Today is Mom's last day of work before Christmas (so it's my last day of having to kill time in the mornings by watching HGTV); I've re-purpled my hair yet again and am now waiting for her to get home so we can figure out our afternoon plans.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=527268" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:521241</id>
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    <title>testing</title>
    <published>2011-10-31T23:32:44Z</published>
    <updated>2011-10-31T23:33:03Z</updated>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="health"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/betafeatures"&gt;Dreamwidth's new update page has entered beta testing - turn it on at the beta features page!&lt;/a&gt; There's an entry at &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-beta.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-beta.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_beta&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://dw-beta.dreamwidth.org/12259.html"&gt;for reporting bugs.&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I have been sitting on my ass the past couple of days, because I am so uncoordinated that I wrenched my knee getting into a taxi. /o\ (My foot got stuck, and then I tried to turn the rest of me 90 degrees clockwise. It hurt.) Ellie had to go to CVS and buy me a knee brace. On the bright side, I succeeded in getting to class this morning, although I was slightly late since I waited for a bus at Ruggles instead of walking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=521241" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:513065</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-05-29T21:19:00</title>
    <published>2011-05-30T01:22:36Z</published>
    <updated>2011-05-30T01:23:32Z</updated>
    <category term="thinky thoughts"/>
    <category term="shopping:thrifting"/>
    <category term="adventures in city living"/>
    <category term="meta"/>
    <category term="depression"/>
    <category term="kink"/>
    <category term="shopping"/>
    <category term="mental illness"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="shopping:yard sales"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;Recently&lt;/h3&gt;

Went to a few yard sales (and the Kinky Tea and Tag Sale yesterday, where I spent most of my time socializing, and Boomerangs today, where I found a fantastic knife block for $2, which has made Ellie pretty happy). It turns out that yard sales make an effective carrot for getting me up relatively early on the weekends, and also getting me out of the house. Unfortunately, I walked 3.7 miles yesterday and 1.9 miles today, wearing flip flops for the first time since last year. Oops.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/513065.html#cutid1"&gt;science, kink and fanfic, Dreamwidth stuff, mental illness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=513065" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:508933</id>
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    <title>I'm not drinking from the firehose, it just seems like I am.</title>
    <published>2011-04-25T21:02:09Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-25T21:07:50Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="geek!"/>
    <category term="privilege"/>
    <category term="three weeks for dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="health"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="computer stuff"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="responsible grown-up person"/>
    <category term="archives"/>
    <category term="the basement - pretty cold actually"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>6</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;Notes&lt;/h3&gt;

Three Weeks for Dreamwidth happening now. Expect everybody to be posting all the time. (Seriously, the amount of stuff on my reading page today was terrifying. If you want the actual firehose, &lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/latest?feed=threeweeks"&gt;the threeweeks feed on Latest Things&lt;/a&gt; aggregates posts tagged with several variations on the fest name.)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Recently&lt;/h3&gt;

Got to see the US Archivist speak today but was barred from the reception afterwards due to being a student (supposedly because of the presence of alcohol, which is doubly hilarious to me because I am over 21 and still do not ever booze it up). Although his speech was good (and confirmed that government archives are not my first choice but would not be too soul-sucking), and I got to archives-squee at the guy I sat next to.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;21 Days of Dreamwidth&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/508933.html#cutid1"&gt;day 1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Questions meme&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://erika.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://erika.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;erika&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; asked:
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/508933.html#cutid2"&gt;three questions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___3" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/508933.html#cutid3"&gt;4 links: male privilege, derby girl names, non-fictional women of interest, migraines&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___3" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Plans&lt;/h3&gt;

Last blog entry for class, last paper for the same class, only paper for the other class, book reviews, &lt;a href="http://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/508895.html"&gt;responses for the New Orleans FONSFAQ (also still taking prompts)&lt;/a&gt;, possibly some responses for other FONSFAQs, possibly a notable woman for She's Kind of a Big Deal, the thing I am making for MCR (yes, I am making them a thing).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=508933" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:508515</id>
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    <title>Parker would like this icon.</title>
    <published>2011-04-21T22:43:20Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-21T22:43:56Z</updated>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="fandom:leverage"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dingsi.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dingsi.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dingsi&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dingsi.dreamwidth.org/133935.html"&gt;FONSFAQ Projects Masterlist&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;FONSFAQ stands for "Frequently (Or Not So Frequently) Asked Questions" (about a particular topic). Someone hosts a topic, preferably one per entry, and then in comments people can ask - i.e. leave prompts - or claim some issue relating to the topic that they have always wanted to explain/write about. The host then collects the links to all essays that people have written in reply to the prompts and everybody has a lot to read and learn!&lt;/blockquote&gt;
I would kind of like to do a FONSFAQ but I don't know what I'd be enough of an expert in. :\ Maybe New Orleans?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-nifty.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-nifty.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_nifty&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-nifty.dreamwidth.org/12149.html"&gt;Your own domain as an OpenID in two lines*&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I just set up OpenID at my woefully out-of-date but pithier URL of http://metawidget.net. Like my e-mail over there, the idea is to future-proof my online identity: I more or less own my own domain, whereas it is possible that Dreamwidth, myOpenID, Livejournal or whoever else will do something I don't like (or just be reduced to a smoking crater by a DDoS or an antitrust lawsuit or something). Through the miracle of OpenID delegation, if I get sick of whatever site is doing the OpenID listing, I just fire them, change these two lines, and keep my OpenID. Also, it might motivate me to clean up my site, archive some stuff, and all that.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;leverage_flashfic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! First prompt goes live on April 25th.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=508515" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:507846</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-19T11:07:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-19T15:43:06Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-19T16:19:30Z</updated>
    <category term="meta"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="my family is fucking nuts"/>
    <category term="meatspace:concerts"/>
    <category term="cory"/>
    <category term="social life"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="music:my chemical romance"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="fandom:vids"/>
    <category term="rape culture"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="fandom:bandom"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;Notes&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;a href="http://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/profile"&gt;
&lt;img src="http://www.sofiaviolet.com/imagines/angelikitten-3WFDWBanner1B.png" alt="Three Weeks for Dreamwidth" title="Three Weeks for Dreamwidth" border="0" width="420" height="150" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I already have a few ideas of things to post. If there are things you would like me to post about, then prompt me. (No guarantees, since I will be offline for 5+ days, but I will try.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Questions meme!&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/507846.html#cutid1"&gt;Long-overdue&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/507846.html#cutid2"&gt;2 links: Portal fanart and criticism of rape culture&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Plans&lt;/h3&gt;

Finish up my semester (my last semester of undergrad omfg), MCR concert, Capture the Flag in Franklin Park, play party.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=507846" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:504658</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-10T11:18:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-10T15:28:44Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-10T15:29:05Z</updated>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="livejournal"/>
    <category term="music"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="queer"/>
    <category term="domestics"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
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    <category term="school"/>
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    <content type="html">Ellie has found a new grocery store, which is good because it's closer and has better produce, but bad because it's not near anything else (that we know of). (Seriously, we switch grocery stores basically every year. At our old place, we went to the one in walking distance. The first year we lived in JP, we needed a T-accessible supermarket. After Ellie got a car, we started going to South Bay because there were other stores (like Home Depot) nearby. Then we switched allegiance to Dedham - Home Depot along the way, BJ's down the road.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://forthwritten.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://forthwritten.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;forthwritten&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://forthwritten.dreamwidth.org/84324.html"&gt;fanfiction and my younger self&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;And so, when we were about 16 or 17, one of my friends discovered fanfiction in general and slash fiction in particular. In a way, we used it as a silent, secret rebellion, swapping these stories underground (no, really; our common room was in a basement). It fascinated me. Here were stories about people who presented as female one day and male the next, who loved people of their gender, who negotiated sex, who didn't have happily-ever-afters but who had to talk and argue and reconfigure their friendship. The screen did not coyly fade to black and the story often did not end with sex; instead, there were morning-afters and misunderstandings and confusion that had to be resolved. The people had agency and were active participants and, as &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://the-shoshanna.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://the-shoshanna.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;the_shoshanna&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; notes, sex did not fundamentally change them. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_suggestions&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/535357.html"&gt;: A User's Guide&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;So, you want to learn more about the &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_suggestions&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; process! This entry will be made the "sticky entry" in the &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-suggestions.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_suggestions&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; community (replacing the existing one, which was starting to show its age) to serve as an introduction to the Suggestions process, Dreamwidth development, and just what the heck people should be keeping in mind while they're discussing things here.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_maintenance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/31299.html"&gt;New imports temporarily stopped; import queue paused&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;We are therefore &lt;strong&gt;temporarily&lt;/strong&gt; pausing the existing import jobs until the traffic clears up some and we are able to further modify the importer so that it is even less of a load on LJ. We are also &lt;strong&gt;temporarily&lt;/strong&gt; stopping the ability to queue new imports, so that once we bring the import queue back up, it will give the queue the chance to clear a bit. (Also, we'd like to minimize the impact on LJ.)&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

Now to assemble a Powerpoint for tomorrow's mini-lecture on Maria Callas, Renata Tebaldi, and Teh Famous Rivalry!!!! (Wondering whether it would be cool to play an aria and make the class guess which of them is singing it...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504658" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:504392</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-08T20:50:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-09T00:53:38Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-09T00:56:02Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="poly"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="livejournal"/>
    <category term="fandom:leverage"/>
    <category term="followfriday"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="politics"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">Oof. Spend 30-ish hours finishing a paper and being at work, and you wind up with 50 open tabs after you skip 120 entries back. (Back when I was primarily reading on LJ, I would have had to skip farther back but I wouldn't have needed to open as many tabs.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;internets&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/create?from=sofiaviolet&amp;amp;code=PKXWMZ2YXEK8MAAAM8AA"&gt;Dreamwidth invite code&lt;/a&gt;, free for the taking, or check &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-codesharing.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_codesharing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Warning: the queue for the importer is really backed up right now because so many people want to import and because LJ doesn't have the resources to give the import tool what it's asking for. If you can wait to import, please do.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://stepps.dreamwidth.org/323637.html"&gt;What to do with Dreamwidth: a list of tutorials and information&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;leverage_flashfic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! The Leverage panel at Muskrat Jamboree wanted a flashfic comm and I volunteered to run it. No one has posted fic yet, but I am &lt;a href="http://leverage-flashfic.dreamwidth.org/448.html"&gt;soliciting prompts&lt;/a&gt;.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://ao3some.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;ao3some&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, which may win for best comm name.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://lj-refugees.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;lj_refugees&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_community_promo&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://dw-community-promo.dreamwidth.org/291874.html"&gt;is hosting a communities-only version of Follow Friday&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://melannen.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;melannen&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://melannen.dreamwidth.org/294088.html"&gt;Love &amp; Marriage&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;One thing I love in a good SF story is ways of doing love, marriage, and romance that don't buy in to our society's idea of love+romance+sex+monogamy all on one single person as the only way to do it. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/57915.html"&gt;(no subject)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I've seen people wondering why imports are taking so @)#$(*&amp; long. This might help shed some light:&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;synecdochic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/459929.html"&gt;LiveJournal's DDoS and Russian Politics&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;So, people who grumble about "the Russians" taking over LJ should remember that in Russia, LiveJournal isn't just the top blogging platform, it's the blogging platform. It is Russia's free press. It is the tool being used to fight corruption and advance the cause of democracy. And, more practically to LJ users, the Russian-speaking sector of LJ is the reason LJ is still there at all.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;helens78&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://helens78.dreamwidth.org/1022248.html"&gt;Vote Ticky!&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;I am in favor of tickys because tickys are a form of communication. They can help engender community and relationships in a way that can enhance comments rather than replacing them or taking away from them. When someone isn't commenting, it's impossible to know if it's because they're lost for words, aren't on a platform suitable for lengthy comments (how many users read the site from smartphones now?), don't have a lot of spoons, have to conserve typing time... or aren't reading and don't care. Seeing people's names crop up repeatedly in tickys helps us discover who out there is giving us their time and attention, and can be a greatly-appreciated form of support, even or especially in times when hearing many individual comments -- and feeling obliged to respond to each of them -- can feel overwhelming.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;EDIT: &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_maintenance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/31231.html"&gt;LiveJournal slowdowns/DDoS affecting importer, crossposts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504392" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:504126</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2011-04-07T08:25:00</title>
    <published>2011-04-07T12:26:16Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-07T12:26:16Z</updated>
    <category term="rape"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="abuse"/>
    <category term="surviving"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>4</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://helens78.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;helens78&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://helens78.dreamwidth.org/1020437.html"&gt;pondering... grainfest?&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Rumor has it that DW is going to be offering seed accounts again. For those of us who don't want one, can't afford $200 for one right now, or already have one, would there be any interest in some kind of parallel fundraising endeavor? We could use the term "grain" instead of "seed" (similar connotation, similar potentially-organic vegan term!), and make icons saying we're going after GRRRRRAAAAAIIIIINNNNSSSS, and... okay, really I just think the idea of dreamsheep zombies saying GRRRRRAAAAIIIINNNSSS is hysterical, but seriously, I think it could be a fun project.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://whatprivilege.com/non-survivor-privilege-and-silence/"&gt;What Privilege?: Non-survivor privilege and silence&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Those of us who’ve experienced abuse, rape and other violations don’t keep it quiet because we’re ashamed. Or because it’s intensely personal. The main reason we keep it quiet is because we know how you’ll treat us if we tell you. We know you have a culturally-granted privilege to remain ignorant. To not know, and therefore not to be responsible. Not to bother. Not to think about it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

And &lt;a href="http://dw-maintenance.dreamwidth.org/30924.html"&gt;Dreamwidth's hosting provider will be performing maintenance over the weekend. They estimate 15 minutes of downtime for Dreamwidth during a 6-hour window.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504126" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:504021</id>
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    <title>9 links</title>
    <published>2011-04-06T03:26:31Z</published>
    <updated>2011-04-06T03:26:31Z</updated>
    <category term="slash"/>
    <category term="rape"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="queer"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="vanity"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="sex and sexuality"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="gender"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>4</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/504021.html#cutid1"&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=504021" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:502102</id>
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    <title>To do over the next few weeks</title>
    <published>2011-03-30T01:52:55Z</published>
    <updated>2011-03-30T01:53:36Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="history"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="adventures in city living"/>
    <category term="conventions:muskrat jamboree"/>
    <category term="music:my chemical romance"/>
    <category term="fandom:bandom:mcr saves lives!"/>
    <category term="creative:jewelry"/>
    <category term="sanity (relatively speaking)"/>
    <category term="fandom"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="rape"/>
    <category term="depression"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;li&gt;Pack for Muskrat Jamboree&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Attend MJ&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Write capstone paper&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Create 30-45 minute presentation for music seminar&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Edit capstone paper&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Write a few more blog entries for The Networked Society&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Write two short papers for TNS&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Write paper for music seminar&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Possibly make Shiny Thing(s) to try and give to MCR after one of their shows&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Go and see MCR a bunch of times&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Remember to take my meds consistently (essential if all of the above is to get done, get done well, and get done on time)&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;br /&gt;And here are a few links for today:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/502102.html#cutid1"&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=502102" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:500035</id>
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    <title>multi-part post</title>
    <published>2011-03-11T14:31:26Z</published>
    <updated>2011-03-11T14:31:26Z</updated>
    <category term="social life"/>
    <category term="meme"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="domestics"/>
    <category term="poll"/>
    <category term="adventures in city living"/>
    <category term="meatspace"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="livejournal"/>
    <category term="followfriday"/>
    <category term="politics"/>
    <category term="activism"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h3&gt;Links&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://charmian.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://charmian.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;charmian&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://charmian.dreamwidth.org/89250.html"&gt;more notifications problems at LJ?&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Currently there's a notifications problem at LJ, which apparently has something to do with a third party [EDIT: possibly Spamhaus]. People are getting fairly upset about it in the comments of the news post (well, also because of the banner color scheme). 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Also, LJ is currently blacklisted with Spamhaus. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;azurelunatic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/6503853.html"&gt;Spamhaus and LJ&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;LJ has been listed by Spamhaus, which has likely got a decent amount to do with the notifications some people aren't getting. &lt;a href="http://azurelunatic.livejournal.com/6663221.html"&gt;I propose a plan of action for users to help the Abuse Prevention Team squish as many spammerbots as humanly possible.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h3&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://lireavue.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://lireavue.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;lireavue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; has been posting good links and personal accounts of the Wisconsin protests.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://laughingrat.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://laughingrat.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;laughingrat&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posts about library and social justice issues.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://helpfordelight.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://helpfordelight.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;helpfordelight&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is an auction comm to assist &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://delight.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://delight.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;delight&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; with moving out of an unsafe housing situation and paying for her mother's cancer treatment.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;three_weeks_for_dw&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is ramping up for another round, beginning on April 25th. &lt;a href="http://three-weeks-for-dw.dreamwidth.org/77464.html"&gt;Planning of activities is currently in progress.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://unclutter.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://unclutter.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;unclutter&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is devoted to getting rid of one thing per day and one thing per new thing. (Kind of high traffic, but a really great way to clean sustainably.)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_meetups&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is usually pretty quiet, but if you are interested in hanging out with other Dreamwidth users, you should subscribe in case someone plans a meetup in your area (and/or plan a meetup yourself!).&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Boston meetup&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;a href="http://dw-meetups.dreamwidth.org/5157.html"&gt;Boston Meetup: tentatively scheduled for 3/17&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;h3&gt;Meme&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.dreamwidth.org/poll/?id=6257"&gt;View Poll: Ask me a question!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=500035" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:499777</id>
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    <title>links</title>
    <published>2011-03-09T22:42:25Z</published>
    <updated>2011-03-09T22:42:48Z</updated>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="adventures in city living"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="livejournal"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://jimhines.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://jimhines.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;jimhines&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://jimhines.dreamwidth.org/112814.html"&gt;Troll Poll&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;To me, a troll is someone who shows up solely to stir things up and piss people off. There’s zero interest in the conversation, zero interest in listening. It’s a game for the troll’s amusement, to poke buttons and see who s/he can piss off.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
To me, clueless =/= troll. Angry =/= troll. Even blatant violation of Wheaton’s Law doesn’t necessarily equate to trolling. We all act like jerks sometimes. (I might still ban you for repeated offenses, but I wouldn’t automatically assume you were a troll.)&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.themorningnews.org/archives/opinions/who_you_are_and_who_you_say_you_are.php"&gt;The Morning News: Who You Are and Who You Say You Are&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;A Norman Rockwell painting from 1995: You can almost hear the modem connecting over the course of 90 screeching, howling seconds. A man’s back is framed by a desk chair—because he’s at a desk, the only place he can use his computer, a 16-pound beige rectangular desktop model with a loud fan that has three plugs connecting it to various electronic conduits. The person is alternately posting on a message board and trolling a chat room under an assumed name, and probably an assumed age, sex, and/or location. There is safety in the scenery of this painting: the basset hound curled under the desk, the tapping of fingers on keys, the fantasy of being Petunia, 18 years old, from Princeton, N.J., when in fact the person at the desk is really Robert, 49, from North Hollywood.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.miller-mccune.com/culture-society/slugging-the-peoples-transit-28068/"&gt;Miller-McCune: Slugging - The People's Transit&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;And off the three go toward the highway — and the suburbs — complete strangers, with not the least concern for personal safety, trying to shave 20 or 30 minutes, maybe more, off their afternoon trip home. “People are cooperating … to commute?” says Marc Oliphant, underscoring the novelty of what is going on here. “It’s like the opposite of road rage!”&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I fiddled with the &lt;a href="http://www.sofiaviolet.com/bookmarklets.html"&gt;Dreamwidth bookmarklets&lt;/a&gt; some more, in response to &lt;a href="http://facetofcathy.dreamwidth.org/192295.html?thread=1070631#cmt1070631"&gt;this comment&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://facetofcathy.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://facetofcathy.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;facetofcathy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. Now there are some view=flat bookmarklets (and they should work on LJ, too).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=499777" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:499490</id>
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    <title>Cleaning up my circle.</title>
    <published>2011-03-08T00:41:07Z</published>
    <updated>2011-03-08T00:41:07Z</updated>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>4</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">I just removed a bunch of accounts from my access list. This was meant to clear out inactive accounts and people who weren't reading me in the first place, &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; to shut anyone out. If I revoked your access but you still want to read my locked entries, comment or PM me and I'll re-add you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=499490" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:498252</id>
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    <title>[The Networked Society] Retooling Shirky's blog types</title>
    <published>2011-02-16T23:37:17Z</published>
    <updated>2011-02-16T23:37:17Z</updated>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>9</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">[Originally posted at &lt;a href="http://thenetworkedsociety.blogspot.com/2011/02/retooling-shirkys-blog-types.html"&gt;The Networked Society&lt;/a&gt;]
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In &lt;a href="http://shirky.com/writings/powerlaw_weblog.html"&gt;Power Laws, Weblogs, and Inequality&lt;/a&gt;, Shirky defines three basic kinds of blogs: the mainstreamed-media blog (too big for its writer/s to reply to comments etc.), "Blogging Classic" (outward-facing blog with a small enough readership that the writer/s can be involved with them), and journaling. (For comparison, &lt;a href="http://wiki.dwscoalition.org/notes/Design_Personas"&gt;Dreamwidth's Design Personas&lt;/a&gt;: Betty Broadcast and Ivy Inward on a journal site versus the first and last of Shirky's blog types.)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
I'm not personally interested in where the tipping point between Blogging Classic and mainstreamed-media lies. What I do care about is how popular a &lt;em&gt;journal&lt;/em&gt; can get before its writer can no longer interact significantly with readers. I'd argue that there are two basic ways of managing a journal (as opposed to a blog): a semi-broadcast model and a more reciprocal model (for more popular and less popular journals, respectively). I'll name them along the lines of the Design Personas.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Sandy (Semi-broadcast): Sandy has more readers than she can fully engage with. She has a group of friends with whom she interacts by reading their entries, replying to their comments sooner and more fully than others, and allowing them to read locked entries in her journal. Sandy tends to have far more inbound relationships (another user lists her as a friend, subscribes to her, and/or grants her access) than outbound relationships, and she probably has relatively few outbound-only relationships.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Rita (Reciprocal): Rita is able to be friends with all or most of her readers. The volume of entries and comments posted by Rita's social group fits within the time Rita can devote to this form of interaction. She tends to have a relatively even number of inbound and outbound relationships, and many of them are mutual.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So what is the tipping point between Sandy and Rita? For what it's worth, I currently subscribe to about 240 journals and have about 250 subscribers (although there are some inactive accounts in there, and about 30% of those relationships are non-mutual) and would consider myself a Rita because I don't feel that I have more other-people's-content than time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=498252" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:496699</id>
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    <title>life and links</title>
    <published>2011-01-29T03:38:47Z</published>
    <updated>2011-01-29T03:38:47Z</updated>
    <category term="fandom:bandom:mcr saves lives!"/>
    <category term="oppression"/>
    <category term="music:my chemical romance"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="politics"/>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="music"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>4</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">Music seminar went to the MFA yesterday; they have a lovely instrument collection. By special arrangement, we were able to hear several pieces by Couperin, Bach, and Mozart played on keyboard instruments: a very complicated harpsichord with two keyboards and three sets of strings, a clavichord, and a piano from 1796. So cool omg.
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&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/496699.html#cutid1"&gt;three links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=496699" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:495839</id>
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    <title>[The Networked Society] Introduction: Separation and Consistency of Identity</title>
    <published>2011-01-14T00:31:32Z</published>
    <updated>2011-01-14T00:33:06Z</updated>
    <category term="school"/>
    <category term="meta"/>
    <category term="livejournal"/>
    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">[Originally posted at &lt;a href="http://thenetworkedsociety.blogspot.com/2011/01/introduction-separation-and-consistency.html"&gt;The Networked Society&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

Many important pieces of paper call me Dominique, but I wouldn't say that's my "real name." More on that in a moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I've been a blogger/journaller (in varying proportions) since 2002, when I whirled through several journal sites before settling on &lt;a href="http://livejournal.com"&gt;LiveJournal&lt;/a&gt;. I have since switched my allegiance to &lt;a href="http://dreamwidth.org"&gt;Dreamwidth&lt;/a&gt;, which I have been using since closed beta.*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I will be cross-posting and cross-linking everything I contribute to this blog on Dreamwidth. For the class and anyone who happens upon The Networked Society by whatever means: you are welcome to follow me home to &lt;span lj:user="sofiaviolet" style="white-space: nowrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/profile"&gt;&lt;img src="http://s.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png" alt="[personal profile] " width="17" height="17" style="vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;sofiaviolet&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. For my regular readers: you can visit &lt;a href="http://thenetworkedsociety.blogspot.com"&gt;The Networked Society&lt;/a&gt; to read everyone else's posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

I have almost always been pseudonymous online, for certain values of pseudonymous: Sofia Blackthorne and sofiaviolet aren't on my passport or anything, but they're both &lt;em&gt;me&lt;/em&gt; in a way my legal name isn't. I use them &lt;em&gt;everywhere&lt;/em&gt;. This isn't the first time I've made a connection between my offline, "official" self and my online/offline "real" self, but it is the first time I've made the connection publicly in a manner that funnels people from Dominique to Sofia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

So I'm not super-strict in enforcing separation of my "official" self's (fairly minimal) online presence and the vast majority of what I do online. I avoid directing people from Dominique to Sofia and exercise caution in directing them from Sofia to Dominique. Basic internet skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

As for internal separation, talking to one group of friends about this topic and another group of friends about some other topic - I pretty much don't do it. This is an area where journal sites, like most social networking/social media** sites, kind of fall down on the job. Sites using the LiveJournal codebase (which include clones such as InsaneJournal and forks such as Dreamwidth) have filters (user-defined groups of people; entries can be restricted to a particular filter or to multiple filters), which can be used for this kind of separation as well as for privacy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;span style="font-size:smaller;"&gt;* I would like to devote another post to issues surrounding Dreamwidth: why the site came into existence, who has started using it and why, etc. I'd also like to talk about the experience of being an early adopter, something I'd never been before committing to Dreamwidth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;span style="font-size:smaller;"&gt;** In &lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/235204.html"&gt;part three&lt;/a&gt; of her essay on &lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/234496.html"&gt;Why Monetizing Social Media Through Advertising Is Doomed To Failure&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;span lj:user="synecdochic" style="white-space: nowrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/profile"&gt;&lt;img src="http://s.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png" alt="[personal profile] " width="17" height="17" style="vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://synecdochic.dreamwidth.org/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;synecdochic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;/&lt;span lj:user="denise" style="white-space: nowrap;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile"&gt;&lt;img src="http://s.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png" alt="[staff profile] " width="17" height="17" style="vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; (co-founder/co-owner of Dreamwidth) provides a nice disambiguation for social networking and social media:
&lt;blockquote&gt;The two terms are &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; interchangeable, ultimately. Social networking seeks to (for the most part) replicate a person's existing social web (think of sites like Classmates.com and LinkedIn.com); its purpose is to &lt;em&gt;define&lt;/em&gt; your ties with others. Social media takes that one step further: it seeks to &lt;em&gt;create and nurture&lt;/em&gt; social ties to others, &lt;em&gt;through the content that you provide&lt;/em&gt;.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If you think of a site as a game, the "winning conditions" of the game will be a good clue as to whether the site is a social networking site or a social media site. If you win the game when you collect all of your existing friends, or collect as many new friends as possible, you're on a social network. If you win the game when you provide content that's interesting enough to get other people to build relationships with you, when your social currency is the content you provide, you're on a social media site.&lt;/blockquote&gt; 
This suggests to me that social media users may in fact benefit from talking to everyone about everything, in terms of creating these new relationships. Not simply because diverse content brings more diverse followers, but also because publicly available content brings more followers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=495839" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:490379</id>
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    <title>links</title>
    <published>2010-11-22T01:56:46Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-22T01:56:46Z</updated>
    <category term="music"/>
    <category term="rape"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="disability"/>
    <category term="links"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/490379.html#cutid1"&gt;6 links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=490379" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:486482</id>
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    <title>just the link backlog for now</title>
    <published>2010-10-04T03:17:52Z</published>
    <updated>2010-10-04T03:17:52Z</updated>
    <category term="creative:photography"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="trans"/>
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    <category term="internets"/>
    <category term="creative:crafting"/>
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    <content type="html">I've had a headache for most of the weekend, spent waaaaaaay too long trying to sleep the headache off, and &lt;em&gt;then&lt;/em&gt; it took Ellie and I all afternoon to get groceries (we hit Allandale Farms, Whole Foods, BJ's, and Stop-n-Shop. Plus Home Depot so she could price some set-building stuff).

&lt;ul&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://djohnstone.tumblr.com/post/1216667766/all-in-a-name-new-software-benefits-transgender"&gt;All in a Name: New Software Benefits Transgender Students&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;The new software, created as an adjunct to the Banner student information system, allows students to fill out a form specifying their preferred name and pronoun. The information appears on all paperwork seen by faculty, so petitioning professors individually, a process that gave students no choice but to out themselves, is a thing of the past.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://naraht.dreamwidth.org/423815.html"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://naraht.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://naraht.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;naraht&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.lifewithalacrity.com/2004/03/the_dunbar_numb.html"&gt;The Dunbar Number as a Limit to Group Sizes&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;My anecdotal evidence generally seems to support the idea that group sizes will usually plateau at a number lower than 150 participants. This comes from 20 years of doing facilitation both on and offline, running several software companies, and running various forums at America Online. In particular, many online communities provide good evidence for Dunbar's Number actually being an upper limit (either due to reduced efficiency or due to increased dispersion).&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-news.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-news.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_news&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-news.dreamwidth.org/25541.html"&gt;Weekly Update: 30 Sept&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;* Development&lt;br /&gt;
* Code Push&lt;br /&gt;
* More DW Creativity&lt;br /&gt;
* RIP, Vox&lt;br /&gt;
* DW Advocacy&lt;br /&gt;
* Icon Renames&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://wiki.dwscoalition.org/notes/Advocacy"&gt;Dreamwidth Wiki: Advocacy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/51667.html"&gt;DW artisans&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://wordweaverlynn.dreamwidth.org/534153.html"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://wordweaverlynn.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://wordweaverlynn.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;wordweaverlynn&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="https://ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals.html"&gt;Kink Aware Professionals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=486482" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:486069</id>
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    <title>linkity</title>
    <published>2010-09-29T01:07:21Z</published>
    <updated>2010-09-29T01:10:34Z</updated>
    <category term="creative:crafting"/>
    <category term="links"/>
    <category term="fandom:bandom"/>
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    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://mizubyte.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://mizubyte.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;mizubyte&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://miz.dreamwidth.org/125838.html"&gt;Master List: Bandom Timeline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;via multiple people: &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWSiztP2Rp0"&gt;Avatar Remix - A.V.A.T.A.R. (Anglos Valiantly Aiding Tragic Awe-inspiring Races)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://denise.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;denise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://denise.dreamwidth.org/51256.html"&gt;(no subject)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Meanwhile, I'm on the lookout for Dreamwidth users who have Etsy shops -- it doesn't matter what you sell, as long as it's handcrafted of some sort. I'd like to put together a showcase of DW users' creativity -- it's really easy for us to show off writers (of both fiction and nonfiction) on DW, since the tools we have for sharing and promoting writing are fairly well developed, but &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://mark.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://mark.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;mark&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and I always wanted DW to be a place to showcase all kinds of creativity, from writing to craft to photography to just plain chronicling your life, and I'd really like to start doing some work to promote the non-written forms of creative work our users get up to.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Related to the above: &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://etsy.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://etsy.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;etsy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! My comm, which I have thrown into the ring in support of Denise's endeavor. Join, tell me what kinds of things you would want out of such a community, make posts... I will gladly take on co-mods if people want to get involved on that level.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=486069" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:484966</id>
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    <title>look alive, sunshine (WHAT ARE THEIR FACES OH MY GOD)</title>
    <published>2010-09-17T23:13:36Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-17T18:08:26Z</updated>
    <category term="travel:england"/>
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    <category term="travel:grand forks"/>
    <category term="fandom:bandom:mcr saves lives!"/>
    <category term="music:my chemical romance"/>
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    <dw:mood>excited</dw:mood>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Looooong slog at work today. Ia ia vertical file fhtagn! And I have to do more of it on Monday. (Hell is interfiling.)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Memery&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/484966.html#cutid1"&gt;Friday Five: travel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Follow Friday&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://followfriday.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://followfriday.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;followfriday&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; | &lt;a href="http://www.dreamwidth.org/latest?feed=followfriday"&gt;Latest Things tagged follow friday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___2" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/484966.html#cutid2"&gt;caution: teal deer crossing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___2" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___3" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://sofiaviolet.dreamwidth.org/484966.html#cutid3"&gt;6 links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___3" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=484966" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:484829</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2010-09-16T21:07:00</title>
    <published>2010-09-17T01:16:21Z</published>
    <updated>2010-09-17T01:32:27Z</updated>
    <category term="dreamwidth:layoutting"/>
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    <category term="fashion:cosmetics and scent"/>
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    <category term="cory"/>
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    <category term="postal"/>
    <category term="ellie"/>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Post office seems to be holding everything Ellie and I receive from outside the United States. "Pissed off" is putting it lightly, especially since I pretty much have to leave work early to make it to our local post office before it closes.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Work has been kind of meh this week. And Cory hasn't been online much for the past few days. And Ellie is too spoonless to cook. And the temperature dropped kind of suddenly. Many things contributing to my overall bleh right now. I am looking forward to the weekend.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;ETA: Cory is back online. Much cheered by this. :)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As for MCR: thanks for finally giving us some real news, fuckers. And the album does sound like something I'd like. But I will forever be sad that we won't get Black Dragon Fighting Society.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;

&lt;li&gt;via somebody, but I forget who: &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/15/arts/design/15lawyers.html"&gt;Superheroes in Court at Yale Show&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;The show, “Superheroes in Court! Lawyers, Law and Comic Books,” provides images of superheroes in the dock, comic books about lawyers and examples of legal disputes and Congressional inquiries involving caped crusaders.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://icanhascheezburger.com/2010/09/16/funny-pictures-eyeliner/"&gt;This lolcat accurately describes my eyeliner skill level.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;b&gt;Dreamwidth stuff&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://ninetydegrees.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://ninetydegrees.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;ninetydegrees&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://getting-started.dreamwidth.org/58584.html"&gt;Getting Started: Styles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://wiki.dwscoalition.org/notes/Category:S2_Guide"&gt;S2 Guide&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://wiki.dwscoalition.org/notes/S2_CSS"&gt;S2 CSS&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-antispam.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/comm_staff.png' alt='[site community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://dw-antispam.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;dw_antispam&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://dw-antispam.dreamwidth.org/31096.html"&gt;Call for antispam volunteers!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://kate.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://kate.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;kate&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://kate.dreamwidth.org/418805.html"&gt;Collection of things to help people new to Dreamwidth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=484829" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-04-20:101964:484125</id>
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    <title>sofiaviolet @ 2010-09-15T20:22:00</title>
    <published>2010-09-16T00:31:32Z</published>
    <updated>2010-11-24T15:56:52Z</updated>
    <category term="activism"/>
    <category term="lol"/>
    <category term="dreamwidth"/>
    <category term="ellie"/>
    <category term="school"/>
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    <category term="fandom:scott pilgrim"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Today's lulz: letter from Glamour magazine attempting to get &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mr.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; [Sofia Blackthorne] to subscribe. My legal first name is technically unisex (I was named after my great-grandfather), though in English-speaking cultures, Dominique pretty much female (although I wonder, given the number of times people have attempted to call me Dominic to my very cis-female face - can they not pronounce -que endings or something?).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Also, Ellie is eating all my Green &amp; Blacks milk chocolate. :\&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://scottpilgrimslash.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png' alt='[community profile] ' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://scottpilgrimslash.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;scottpilgrimslash&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://scottpilgrimslash.dreamwidth.org/712.html"&gt;comment-fic-athon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://holyschist.dreamwidth.org/156221.html"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://holyschist.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://holyschist.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;holyschist&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="https://genderbitch.wordpress.com/2009/10/03/a-m-o-communication/"&gt;[Activist Modus Operandi] Methods of Communication&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://tim.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://tim.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;tim&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://tim.dreamwidth.org/1708538.html"&gt;How To Fail Out Of Grad School Without Really Trying&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;There's a saying that you should never take advice from the survivors, and I felt that way reading this list of reasons Ph.D students fail. If I interpret this article as advice, it's good advice. But if I interpret it as a compendium of reasons why students fail, it doesn't really capture my experience or that of other people I know who left grad school. One reason why is that the author attributes failure only to individual students, ignoring the important role that unsupportive faculty members and indifferent institutions can play in encouraging failure. As Barbara Lovitts shows in her book _Leaving the Ivory Tower_, there are disciplinary and institutional patterns to grad student attrition, suggesting structural reasons for why Ph.D students fail that cannot be reduced to random individual variations in character.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;via #dreamwidth: &lt;a href="http://www.kalzumeus.com/2010/06/17/falsehoods-programmers-believe-about-names/"&gt;Falsehoods Programmers Believe About Names&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/251996.html"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://rydra-wong.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;rydra_wong&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;a href="http://brigid.dreamwidth.org/42065.html"&gt;I love the smell of dreamwidth in the morning.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;Every day that you're online, scout around dreamwidth. Find one person you don't normally comment to and comment on an entry. Pick a community that looks cool or that you're a member of and don't normally post to/comment on, and leave a post/comment. Post something of substance in your journal. Start a conversation. Engage. Enrich the community.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Plans&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Need to redo the purple on my hair this weekend, or maybe sooner if I feel like it. It's starting to fade significantly near the roots. Also need to go to the post office, since those bastards have stopped leaving international parcels on the porch. Also should install software updates and restart my computer, especially since it might fix the problems that exist between Adium and Facebook chat. Also also should order some tights for extended skirt-wearing season.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=sofiaviolet&amp;ditemid=484125" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <title>busy weekend</title>
    <published>2010-09-13T02:07:01Z</published>
    <updated>2010-09-13T02:07:01Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">&lt;h2&gt;Recently&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Ellie and I were going to have a roast for dinner last night, but it had gone off. We wound up getting Indian food at Ghazal instead, along with Courtney. And as we were settling the bill, other people we knew walked by. So we wound up following Cid, Jason, Daly, and Scarlet to JP Licks for ice cream (and then everybody got to say hi to Brashani and Christian too, when they stopped by), and then went back to Cid and Jason's apartment - in theory to play Clue, but we actually wound up watching Crank 2 and yelling at the shenanigans.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Then Ellie wanted to get some stuff from Woodcraft today, so I went with her because I wanted to get out of the house. I wound up getting some turning blanks: black and white ebony, rosewood, lignum vitae, and olivewood. (Not a new hobby! I make little wire trees in addition to jewelry, and thought it would be awesome to attach the wire trees to small pieces of actual wood.) I'm going to have to cut some of the blanks into smaller pieces, and probably surface them a little.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;h2&gt;Links&lt;/h2&gt;

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